It is a familiar feeling – stuck and not knowing what to do. Many of us often find ourselves in that spot, desiring clarity about life’s blurred paths. In this article you will find some tips and tricks on how to give yourself the resolution you need. At times it seems as though all the arrows are pointing in different directions, like something is blocking our view, making it difficult to see which one leads to real success or a sense of accomplishment. We have high hopes for our lives but getting started can be confusing, helpless even. As Oprah Winfrey said, “Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.” Even in dark times we can seek the light of inner clarity.
It isn't easy to establish goals and take action within our own lives. This is why it is important to create a plan. Make a list of your goals, desires, and ambitions and how you are going to reach them. Truly identify what your value systems are. Your values may have drastically changed over the years, due to age, life events, relationships, or your mental/physical health.
You can also reflect on past decisions and actions to assess patterns of your behavior. Maybe you have tendencies to make decisions based upon fear rather than excitement. Maybe you hold yourself back from success - what drives and motivates you? Once you uncover the fundamental layers of your identity and intent, it will become easier to envision yourself making conscious and effective decisions.
Time is one of your most important resources. Recognize and honor how you spend your time. Whether it be work, family or friends, recreational or school related activities, assign yourself only to those activities that will involve growth and bring joy. If you're dreading going to work every day because your job does not bring purpose or you do not find interest in it, reexamine your circumstances and determine if it's the right fit for you right now. Reflecting on what makes you feel alive will shed light to your true purpose.
Remember that the journey of gaining clarity can be hard, but it is much harder when you do not believe in yourself. So how can you build self-trust? Start small with manageable goals and hold yourself accountable while not expecting perfection. This can be a very positive cycle that continues as you start achieving progress more easily, leading to higher-level accomplishments.
Another helpful suggestion is to seek advice without taking on the opinion of others. Reach out to people and listen to their perspectives; then take a moment to brainstorm and find a solution. You already have the answers, you just have to spend time digging deep and understanding that it may be a long, winding road to clarity.
No matter how hard life may be at times, it is our responsibility to step forward and make the decision that puts us closer to contentment. Realize that you will never know all of the answers and don't be afraid to accept that. It may take some time to uncover what it is that truly works for you, but eventually you will get there.
We all stumble and get stuck, but life is never static. Fear and worry cloud our judgment, but if we find courage, self-trust, and understanding through our path we will be where we wish to be one day - healthy and full of happiness, living a life of meaning. Be patient and strong, progress sometimes is slow and steady, but sometimes you can break out of the complacency that comes with being unaware of the answers that are closest to you. Clarity is always within reach.
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