Dear eNotAlone: I'm in a tough spot and don't know which way to turn. I have been seeing this woman for a while and it's been great, but now I'm faced with a decision. Do I wait around and see if things work out between us, or do I just cut my losses and move on?
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It can be incredibly difficult to make the right choice when faced with an uncertain future. You might feel like you are stuck between a rock and a hard place, but there are a few things you should consider that can help you make the best decision for yourself.
First of all, it is important to take into account what kind of relationship you want in the long run. If you are looking for a long-term commitment, and you don't see that possibility with this particular woman, then perhaps it is best to move on now and avoid the potential heartbreak down the line. On the other hand, if you feel like the two of you have something special, and you can see yourself having a successful and lasting relationship, then waiting to see how things progress may be a better choice.
No matter what decision you make, it is also essential to think about timing. If you decide that your best option is to wait and continue to date this woman, be sure to keep track of your feelings throughout the relationship. Make sure you take note of any changes in your feelings, or any signs that the relationship may not be progressing the way you had hoped. It is important to pay attention to these red flags, as it could help you decide to end things if they pop up.
It is beneficial to look within yourself to assess how invested in the relationship you truly are. Are you more committed than the woman you are seeing? Do you feel like you have already formed a deeper connection than she has? Ask yourself these questions and reflect on the relationship honestly to figure out what would be best for you.
Nobody can tell you what the right decision is but yourself. Listen to your gut and make the decision that feels right to you. Try to be honest with yourself and don't make any hasty decisions, as it is important to make sure that you are making the best choice for your future.
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