Overcoming Doubts to Find The One

Two people stand facing each other, connected gracesfully by the web of their tiny, intertwined fingers. Their eyes locked, as if they are forever bound. The aura of peace, contentment and unconditional love radiates from them in a comforting warmth. The very thought of it brings out an array of emotions - jealousy, admiration, hope. In this blissful bubble of happiness, is it possible to feel something else? Like a paralyzing fear that prevents one from finding their so-called 'Soulmate'?

Indeed, when it comes to finding a partner for life, many of us face self-doubt and fear. We often begin to question ourselves and our own journey – if carrying on down the same path will eventually bring us to 'the one'. We start convincing ourselves that what we want is not what we need, that if we choose perfect – i.e. our Soulmate - life will somehow become too mundane for us or that our paths were destined to stay separate. Before long, we start walking away from potential candidates even before giving them a chance to prove themselves; not because we don't like them but simply because we don't trust them with our forever-afters.

However, all these doubts can very easily be conquered with mindful practice. People in search of true companionship must make an effort to turn away from these thoughts of insecurity and instead stay firmly grounded in the present moment. It is essential to appreciate the universe with which one is already surrounded; and instead of wondering ‘what if' they must accept and explore whatever is here right now. From here one may look outside into the world free of apprehensions and judge someone based on their merit, rather than whether they have the magical qualities of a 'Soulmate'.

Furthermore, maintaining an open mind coupled with positive thinking can help escalate the process of finding ‘The One' – just like how birds migrate from cold to warm climates depending on season; one must also jump at every opportunity that comes their way without hesitation or forgetting their core values . Friends, family and teachers play a huge role in our lives, so ask for their advice or perspective and let them guide you towards the possibilities hidden within. As one embarks upon this sacred journey, the inner voice must be present in order for the individual to make the best decision for themselves – if the answer does not scream out loud, rethink and reflect until it does.

Adopting such a change-seeking attitude will allow one to experience all aspects of life available in the current Universe - good or bad. Afterall, what doesn't kill you only makes you more resilient. Whenever anxiety-driven thoughts besiege one's mind (because believe us this will happen), counter it with self-love and respect; by taking a few gentle breaths and reminding yourself that the right person will come when it's meant to be so; and therefore, there is no need to rush or force anything. On top of that, do not forget to stay grateful for whichever gifts come your way – because it is only through gratitude that one will be capable of returning love with absolute strength and dignity.

There is no perfect answer or formula for finding our 'Soulmate'; but with enough emotional fortitude and faith in one's true self – it's absolutely possible to make the impossible – possible! So whatever it takes to restore your sense of security, take that leap of faith and walk through each tunnel unafraid; because once you make it to the other side - you will find 'The One'.